Most people are naked when they take a shower. Some are like me,
naked when they sleep. You can also just be naked when you feel natural.
You can be completely naturally naked - simply free of clothes - without
putting anything more complicated or sexual in it. Being naked with
others for the first time can be a great victory. But most people quickly
forget the insecure feeling of nudity and it becomes a pleasant experience
that they feel like repeating. For some, it's simply about being free
of clothes when it's impractical or comfortable to be naked. It can
be as winter baths, on the beach in summer or at home in the garden.
For some, social nudity means a change in their relationship to their
own body and to the diversity of others. For many, having a relaxed
relationship with their body increases their self-esteem.
Many experience greater openness and honesty with other people and
become more social and happy. It can strengthen the identity to experience
oneself without a facade of clothes. Along with other naked people,
you become aware of the incredible variation between bodies - and you
discover that very few resemble Miss Universe.
Social nudity can become a lifestyle for mental health. Common to
all who enjoy being naked is the experience of freedom by being free
of clothing and of the culture's narrow definition of the body as a
sex object. Freedom to just be oneself without "additives". Freedom
to meet others as they are. One can be naked in all sorts of ordinary
and everyday contexts, provided one does not offend and offend others.
In the West, we perceive nudity as an expression of the most authentic
and natural a human being can be, but this is far from the case in e.g.
the Asian culture, here nudity is forbidden and shameful. I want to
promote a culture where nudity is free, natural and neutral. I distance
myself from nudity, where one does not take others into account or even
seeks to offend or show off.
Some ask - what do you do if you are naked? I would say you do the
same as if you are wearing clothes - IF it is possible of course. This
also depends on whether these are people you know in advance. The first
time but is naked with others should be with someone you know, someone
you trust, someone who will help you through the first nervousness.
Maybe boys think that what do I do if I get stubborn .... at least that's
what often happens the first few times for some boys. Either you pretend
like nothing, or - if you feel shy, you take a shower and jump in the
pool or the water if that is an option. The pool will often be so cool
that it puts a damper. However, I do not mind seeing a stiff cock, and
not at all if it is a cute little shaved cock. It's not a problem girls
have, but it's my experience that girls are actually far less likely
to be naked with others, which is a shame.
If you have been naked with others, then you have also experienced
that a very large part is clean shaven, both cock and balls - and pussy
for the girls. It is my very clear view that they all want others to
be able to look at them "un-wrapped", everything is visible to others.
A clean-shaven person has gone all in, and they do not mind showing
themselves naked, just as they do not mind others taking pictures. But
taking pictures is something you always have to make sure ...! Personally,
I do not care, people can take all the pictures they want and they can
show them to others if they want.
I am clean shaven, and have been for most of my life, it has become
a lifestyle you can safely say. A few years ago I had most of my hair
removed by a laser treatment, but since I have small hair, it takes
time for the hair to stop growing. I was circumcised in 1998, something
I have never regretted. The feeling of clothes that touch the shine
has diminished over the years, but it does not spoil the pleasure when
I am with others, e.g. on a boat trip.
Naturism and sex are quite often mixed together, but let me say
it immediately, the two things have ONLY one thing in common, that you
are naked in both situations ... no more - no less. In addition, we
rarely know the sexual preferences of others ... we do not know if they
are straight, bisexual or gay, and we do not know at all what the other
turns on. So in public places you keep your fingers to yourself, even
if you know each other.
